19 Apr

Love And Genotype

“I love you, but I have to let you go”. Those were the most hurting words I had heard all my life. I cried like a baby and I couldn’t believe a grown man like me could cry so hard. “hard guy, hard guy; but I was madly in love with this woman who had […]

22 Feb

Long Distance Relationship

  The excitement dropped, the communication sank and the friendship deteriorated. She has been my girlfriend for about two years and I can boastfully say my relationship with her has been my best so far. She just seemed to understand me and she was the best person in my corner until when I had to […]

16 Jan

My Lover’s Best friend

1 “She’s my best friend, and there is nothing you can do about it”. The exhausting argument went on and I could bet it was a battle I was never going to win. He has made it crystal clear that he can’t trade his best friend for anything or anyone; not even for me, or […]

18 Jul

Important Ingredient in Marriage: Review of ACRIMONY

We are still kids, but we’re so in love, Fighting against all odds, I Know we’ll be alright this time… These were probably the words that rang in Melinda’s heart as she walked down the aisle to meet her man, in the midst of empty chairs. As she took each step towards him, she knew […]

04 Jul

How to Keep My Woman

When I bought that sexy yet adorable dress, I could tell how perfect it will look on her, and trust me, I wasn’t wrong. I had many pictures of her play in my head as I waited patiently by my car, after delivering the dress. As she took her gorgeous, calculated steps towards me that […]

31 May

How To Keep My Man

Every morning had a new beautiful smile it brought with it, because with him, love became redefined. From the way we chased each other around the house like kids, to how we cuddled up every night like babies. He loved me effortlessly and I love him endlessly. He was one man who made love so […]

11 May

How To Spite My Ex

I loved him. I trusted him. I adored him. What more could a man ask for? I am hardworking. I am prayerful. I am industrious. Isn’t that the prayer of every partner? I felt like he was all I ever wanted, all I ever prayer for and all I ever wished for. Maybe I was […]

15 Mar

Public Display of Affection

I’m worried.. There seem to be just one thing we can’t get to connect with despite being the favorite of many. And every time, issues like this come up, I hear the same words; like “If you are not cheating on me, it won’t be a big deal”. At first, it sounded funny, that I […]

07 Mar

Our promise

I fell in love with you because you let me, because you said you got me, because you made me feel different. …and now, I am holding on to the memories we made, hoping this tunnel has a light somewhere. I have no idea where we are going, and you hate when I talk about […]

07 Mar

Older women vs younger men

I loved him, maybe I still do. I wanted him, maybe I still do. But, there was too much for us to take in, too much that threatened our love for each other and our relationship. Our culture was against us, families didn’t want us together and at some point, we felt the only people […]